Oct 17, 2012

Blind Self

Today, I just realized that, there were things about that you need to hear from others, before you know that there is something wrong about you. I was so "hot headed" these past few days, I'm so sensitive that my relationship with  friends became so cold. I never knew I am, till a friend told me this, because we argued on something that should not be an argument in the first place.

Now, I realized that when we encounter problems, we tend to be unaware on how we act/react in-front of our friends and other people closest to us. Sometimes we never know we already hurting them by our words and actions. We are creating a disputes out of nothing. We then actually adding burdens on our mind that will no longer help us.

I blogged today as I realized that I was wrong, I taught I was the one who is hurt, but I figured out that I was the problem, I over think things, I make things more complicated that in return will hit me, in return will be another problem from another problem.

I was overwhelmed with problems, to the point that I can't see that I was not dealing good with others.
I should do something about this, I need to relax, to figure things out, I need to resolve my personal issues.
I should thank you Lord that you had the reason why you let that argument with a friend, for you used him to make me see that blind self inside me. The Best ka talaga Lord!

Reflections: 

          1. Don't make everything so complicated.
                   2. Learn to speak your feelings.
                           3. Don't let your friends be affected by the weight
                                      you were having(problems.).
                                          4. The Lord has his reasons.
                                                       5. Sometimes, other people see things you never
                                                                  know about yourself.
                                                                         6. Trust him, he knows what he was doing.

 Verse for today:

Ecclesiastes 8:6

New International Version (NIV)
For there is a proper time and procedure for every matter,

    though a person may be weighed down by misery.



    I Love You Lord!
   #Getting back to work, just unloading some insights here! :) Good day!

2 comments:

  1. This reminds of the Johari Window which describes our relationship with self and others... one of the 4 cuadrants is the blind spot which is something that we don't know about ourselves but others know about. It is really important to take time to listen to people we know cares for us so we can be aware of the things about ourselves that we are not about and improve it as need be :) You're great for being open minded and accepting that sometimes we have to pause and reflect on things.

    Take care, Abril!


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    1. Hi Sis, I just read your comment! :D

      Yeap this was discussed to me and the rest of the class a week before this was posted. :D take care too sis, I love it when you call me Abril Sis! :)


      I hope you're okay now :D

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